I told my sister, that did not have cancer, about my decision and it went real well. I then told my other Sister about my DIEP Flap decision. She is the one who had cancer. I do not know why I was so scared to tell her, but she was wonderful. Hopefully my surgery turns out really well. I did not want anyone trying to talk me out of the surgery but my worries were for nothing. They were both wonderful about my decision.